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Terms You Should Know to Navigate the Sex Industry

Updated: Aug 30, 2022

If you've spent any time reading escort ads or some hook up apps then you've seen abbreviations and acronyms that might as well be in another language. Below I listed the ones that I think are most useful but I know I have left many out.




If you notice an important one that I left out please leave it in the comment area below with the meaning as well.


I hope you find it helpful.


AFF - ADULT FRIEND FINDER- An adult hook up website 


AAMP - ASIAN AMERICAN MASSAGE PARLOR 


AGENCY -  A company that handles all bookings, advertising, screening and scheduling.  The fees can be as much as 100% of the fee you pay and the girls are left to hustle extra money, money the client had no idea he needed.


GFE - Girlfriend Experience - My understanding of GFE is not BB. To me GFE is all about making the session feel organic and not like a business transaction. There shouldn't be a ton of dos and donts.


Girlfriends kiss, cuddle, flirt, smile, take their time, listen, and there's the desire to please along with wanting to be pleased.


No two providers are going to interpret GFE the same, much less deliver it the same..


BB - bare back - This means no condom. Hate to inform you but in my book that is 


WIFE EXPERIENCE or WFE.  Unfortunately, I don't offer wife experiencesto my clients.  I just made that one up.  I've never seen wife experience before but now you have. LOL


STOP AND THINK


If I agree to having unprotected sex with one client that means that I say yes to other clients too.  Let me remind you that you have a beautiful wife that doesnt deserve catching an STD that may not be curable physically or mentally.


As a matter of fact if you ask for BB but say you still wish to book even though I won't agree to BB I won't see you because now I know you don't practice safe sex, even with sex workers and that is horrible. 


BBBJ - Bare Back Blowjob 


CBJ - Covered Blow Job- Blow job with condom


Greek - Anal


Fetish - something that really turns you on. 


Flow - Period 


Rimming - licking anus


ATM - Ass to mouth with fingers, toys, or penis.  


Bad Boy Report - Site where providers share info on clients that no show or are undesirable. 


Bait and Switch - Advertising photos of someone other than the person who opens the door.  They may not even be the same sex or race. 


Cash and Dash - When you pay the agreed price she sneaks or runs out of room without providing any services.  She may have a male accomplice to help her get the money. 


Driver=Security- Person that accompanies provider to outcall location and collects the fee to make sure client cannot take it back.


Bare back/ BB - is sex without a condom 


BBFS = bare back sex


BBW = big beautiful woman


BCD = behind closed doors


BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.


BF = boy friend


BFE = boy friend experience


BLS = ball licking and sucking


Blue Jay = * job


blue pill = Viagra


BTW = by the way


Cash and Dash = provider ROBS client for initial fee. She takes your money and runs


CBJ = covered * job = BJ with condom


CD = cross dresser = covered doggy style


CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom


CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you


CIM = cum in mouth


CL = craigslist.org


CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde or red head 


CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.


Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you cover = condom


cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers


Car Visit - Do session inside clients car


POP = releases = Funs = POPS - climax, orgasm, cum, squirt 


DATO = dining at the o = analingus


DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus on a female.


DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus


Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees


donation = payment


Doubles or Duos = A threesome with two girls and you


DDE = doesn't do extras (PS only)


DFK = deep french kissing, open mouth with tongue


DIY = do it yourself (masturbation)


DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl


DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth


Escort = provider, call girl, a temporary companion for hire


facial = cumming on partner's face


FIV = finger in vagina


FOV = finger outside vagina


French Kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion


FS = full service = BJ + Sex


Get Comfortable = get completely naked


GND = girl next door


Greek = anal sex, back door


GS = golden shower = urination play

GSM = g-spot massage


Hobbyist- A man that makes seeing escorts into a hobby. Hobbyists are usually the worst clients and if I catch wind that is what they are I won't book.


They have places where they do nothing but crudly judge the providers and even do things like try to force a high priced provider down by putting fake bad reviews up until she has no choice but to lower her prices or quit all together. They are the worst of the worst and they travel on packs.


Happy ending = A handjob (usually) or *job after your massage


Hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty Hat = condom


HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release


HH = half hour


HM = high mileage


HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven


HWP = height and weight proportionate


IMHO = in my humble opinion


Italian = penis rubbing between butt cheeks

ISO = in search of


Kitty = vagina


Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess.


LE = ellie = law enforcement


LK = light kissing, closed mouth


Russian = penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck


SC = Strip Club


self-service = you masturbate


shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer


SO = significant other


SOG = shot on goal = one release


SFO = sat on my face south of the border = gential region


SP = Service Provider


Spanish = ATM = ass to mouth


STD = sexually transmitted disease


stroll = path frequented by street walkers


SW = street walker


TAMP = Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor


teabag = man squats and dips balls in partner's mouth


TG = transgender


TGTBT = too good to be true


TLD = topless lap dance


tossing salad = analingus


Troll = rude and hideous PEOPLE ONLINE


TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.


TS = transexual


WTF = What the fuck? (I'm rather surprised by this)


XOXO = Kisses & Hugs


1/2 and 1/2 = half and half = oral sex + full service


411 = seeking information


420 = 4:20 = marijuana


69 = two people giving each other oral sex at the same time


$ = $100

$$ = $200

$$$ = $300

$$$.5 = $350 (get it?)


Incall = You go to her place, or a place she designates.


Outcall = She comes to your place, home, hotel room.


Two call system = For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number( Which is very common)

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delgriffithcincy
2022年8月19日

Couple thoughts. Glad there is some sort of "Bad Boy Report" site, seems like the guys just have the sites to (frequently) trash the girls or "white knight" them. Very difficult to find the truth a lot of times. As to the term 'hobbyist' - I had no idea this was a negative term or even had negative connotations. I just thought it was someone who dabbled in the world of escorts. I have used the term about me & was unaware that it could offend. Is this common - the negative implications of this term? Is there a better one to use? Love your blog!

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workinggirlky
2022年8月20日
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In my experience when a client calls himself a hobbyists it comes across as a bit of a threat. I hear " You know you better do what I want, how I want it I have the power to destroy you."


I've read hobbist threads where they think a provider is charging too much and they want to see her so they post bad reviews to the point she's struggling to get appointments.


Then they reach out and offer her way less and because she has bills she has to accept it. They call it knocking her down a peg or two.


I'm not sure other providers feel the way I do but if i were you I would just…


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