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Terms You Should Know to Navigate the Sex Industry

Updated: Aug 30, 2022

If you've spent any time reading escort ads or some hook up apps then you've seen abbreviations and acronyms that might as well be in another language. Below I listed the ones that I think are most useful but I know I have left many out.

If you notice an important one that I left out please leave it in the comment area below with the meaning as well.

I hope you find it helpful.

AFF - ADULT FRIEND FINDER- An adult hook up website 


AGENCY -  A company that handles all bookings, advertising, screening and scheduling.  The fees can be as much as 100% of the fee you pay and the girls are left to hustle extra money, money the client had no idea he needed.

GFE - Girlfriend Experience - My understanding of GFE is not BB. To me GFE is all about making the session feel organic and not like a business transaction. There shouldn't be a ton of dos and donts.

Girlfriends kiss, cuddle, flirt, smile, take their time, listen, and there's the desire to please along with wanting to be pleased.

No two providers are going to interpret GFE the same, much less deliver it the same..

BB - bare back - This means no condom. Hate to inform you but in my book that is 

WIFE EXPERIENCE or WFE.  Unfortunately, I don't offer wife experiencesto my clients.  I just made that one up.  I've never seen wife experience before but now you have. LOL


If I agree to having unprotected sex with one client that means that I say yes to other clients too.  Let me remind you that you have a beautiful wife that doesnt deserve catching an STD that may not be curable physically or mentally.

As a matter of fact if you ask for BB but say you still wish to book even though I won't agree to BB I won't see you because now I know you don't practice safe sex, even with sex workers and that is horrible. 

BBBJ - Bare Back Blowjob 

CBJ - Covered Blow Job- Blow job with condom

Greek - Anal

Fetish - something that really turns you on. 

Flow - Period 

Rimming - licking anus

ATM - Ass to mouth with fingers, toys, or penis.  

Bad Boy Report - Site where providers share info on clients that no show or are undesirable. 

Bait and Switch - Advertising photos of someone other than the person who opens the door.  They may not even be the same sex or race. 

Cash and Dash - When you pay the agreed price she sneaks or runs out of room without providing any services.  She may have a male accomplice to help her get the money. 

Driver=Security- Person that accompanies provider to outcall location and collects the fee to make sure client cannot take it back.

Bare back/ BB - is sex without a condom 

BBFS = bare back sex

BBW = big beautiful woman

BCD = behind closed doors

BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.

BF = boy friend

BFE = boy friend experience

BLS = ball licking and sucking

Blue Jay = * job

blue pill = Viagra

BTW = by the way

Cash and Dash = provider ROBS client for initial fee. She takes your money and runs

CBJ = covered * job = BJ with condom

CD = cross dresser = covered doggy style

CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom

CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you

CIM = cum in mouth

CL =

CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde or red head 

CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.

Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you cover = condom

cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers

Car Visit - Do session inside clients car

POP = releases = Funs = POPS - climax, orgasm, cum, squirt 

DATO = dining at the o = analingus

DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus on a female.

DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus

Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees

donation = payment

Doubles or Duos = A threesome with two girls and you

DDE = doesn't do extras (PS only)

DFK = deep french kissing, open mouth with tongue

DIY = do it yourself (masturbation)

DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl

DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth

Escort = provider, call girl, a temporary companion for hire

facial = cumming on partner's face

FIV = finger in vagina

FOV = finger outside vagina

French Kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion

FS = full service = BJ + Sex

Get Comfortable = get completely naked

GND = girl next door

Greek = anal sex, back door

GS = golden shower = urination play

GSM = g-spot massage

Hobbyist- A man that makes seeing escorts into a hobby. Hobbyists are usually the worst clients and if I catch wind that is what they are I won't book.

They have places where they do nothing but crudly judge the providers and even do things like try to force a high priced provider down by putting fake bad reviews up until she has no choice but to lower her prices or quit all together. They are the worst of the worst and they travel on packs.

Happy ending = A handjob (usually) or *job after your massage

Hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty Hat = condom

HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release

HH = half hour

HM = high mileage

HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven

HWP = height and weight proportionate

IMHO = in my humble opinion

Italian = penis rubbing between butt cheeks

ISO = in search of

Kitty = vagina

Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess.

LE = ellie = law enforcement

LK = light kissing, closed mouth

Russian = penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck

SC = Strip Club

self-service = you masturbate

shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer

SO = significant other

SOG = shot on goal = one release

SFO = sat on my face south of the border = gential region

SP = Service Provider

Spanish = ATM = ass to mouth

STD = sexually transmitted disease

stroll = path frequented by street walkers

SW = street walker

TAMP = Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor

teabag = man squats and dips balls in partner's mouth

TG = transgender

TGTBT = too good to be true

TLD = topless lap dance

tossing salad = analingus

Troll = rude and hideous PEOPLE ONLINE

TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.

TS = transexual

WTF = What the fuck? (I'm rather surprised by this)

XOXO = Kisses & Hugs

1/2 and 1/2 = half and half = oral sex + full service

411 = seeking information

420 = 4:20 = marijuana

69 = two people giving each other oral sex at the same time

$ = $100

$$ = $200

$$$ = $300

$$$.5 = $350 (get it?)

Incall = You go to her place, or a place she designates.

Outcall = She comes to your place, home, hotel room.

Two call system = For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number( Which is very common)

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Couple thoughts. Glad there is some sort of "Bad Boy Report" site, seems like the guys just have the sites to (frequently) trash the girls or "white knight" them. Very difficult to find the truth a lot of times. As to the term 'hobbyist' - I had no idea this was a negative term or even had negative connotations. I just thought it was someone who dabbled in the world of escorts. I have used the term about me & was unaware that it could offend. Is this common - the negative implications of this term? Is there a better one to use? Love your blog!


In my experience when a client calls himself a hobbyists it comes across as a bit of a threat. I hear " You know you better do what I want, how I want it I have the power to destroy you."

I've read hobbist threads where they think a provider is charging too much and they want to see her so they post bad reviews to the point she's struggling to get appointments.

Then they reach out and offer her way less and because she has bills she has to accept it. They call it knocking her down a peg or two.

I'm not sure other providers feel the way I do but if i were you I would just…

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