Terms You Should Know to Navigate the Sex Industry

Updated: Aug 30

If you've spent any time reading escort ads or some hook up apps then you've seen abbreviations and acronyms that might as well be in another language. Below I listed the ones that I think are most useful but I know I have left many out.

If you notice an important one that I left out please leave it in the comment area below with the meaning as well.

I hope you find it helpful.

AFF - ADULT FRIEND FINDER- An adult hook up website 


AGENCY -  A company that handles all bookings, advertising, screening and scheduling.  The fees can be as much as 100% of the fee you pay and the girls are left to hustle extra money, money the client had no idea he needed.

GFE - Girlfriend Experience - My understanding of GFE is not BB. To me GFE is all about making the session feel organic and not like a business transaction. There shouldn't be a ton of dos and donts.

Girlfriends kiss, cuddle, flirt, smile, take their time, listen, and there's the desire to please along with wanting to be pleased.

No two providers are going to interpret GFE the same, much less deliver it the same..

BB - bare back - This means no condom. Hate to inform you but in my book that is 

WIFE EXPERIENCE or WFE.  Unfortunately, I don't offer wife experiencesto my clients.  I just made that one up.  I've never seen wife experience before but now you have. LOL


If I agree to having unprotected sex with one client that means that I say yes to other clients too.  Let me remind you that you have a beautiful wife that doesnt deserve catching an STD that may not be curable physically or mentally.

As a matter of fact if you ask for BB but say you still wish to book even though I won't agree to BB I won't see you because now I know you don't practice safe sex, even with sex workers and that is horrible. 

BBBJ - Bare Back Blowjob 

CBJ - Covered Blow Job- Blow job with condom

Greek - Anal

Fetish - something that really turns you on. 

Flow - Period 

Rimming - licking anus

ATM - Ass to mouth with fingers, toys, or penis.  

Bad Boy Report - Site where providers share info on clients that no show or are undesirable. 

Bait and Switch - Advertising photos of someone other than the person who opens the door.  They may not even be the same sex or race. 

Cash and Dash - When you pay the agreed price she sneaks or runs out of room without providing any services.  She may have a male accomplice to help her get the money. 

Driver=Security- Person that accompanies provider to outcall location and collects the fee to make sure client cannot take it back.

Bare back/ BB - is sex without a condom 

BBFS = bare back sex

BBW = big beautiful woman

BCD = behind closed doors

BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.

BF = boy friend

BFE = boy friend experience

BLS = ball licking and sucking

Blue Jay = * job

blue pill = Viagra

BTW = by the way

Cash and Dash = provider ROBS client for initial fee. She takes your money and runs

CBJ = covered * job = BJ with condom

CD = cross dresser = covered doggy style

CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom

CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you

CIM = cum in mouth

CL = craigslist.org

CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde or red head 

CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.

Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you cover = condom

cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers

Car Visit - Do session inside clients car

POP = releases = Funs = POPS - climax, orgasm, cum, squirt 

DATO = dining at the o = analingus

DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus on a female.

DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus

Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees

donation = payment

Doubles or Duos = A threesome