Terms You Should Know to Navigate the Sex Industry

Updated: Aug 30

If you've spent any time reading escort ads or some hook up apps then you've seen abbreviations and acronyms that might as well be in another language. Below I listed the ones that I think are most useful but I know I have left many out.




If you notice an important one that I left out please leave it in the comment area below with the meaning as well.


I hope you find it helpful.


AFF - ADULT FRIEND FINDER- An adult hook up website 


AAMP - ASIAN AMERICAN MASSAGE PARLOR 


AGENCY -  A company that handles all bookings, advertising, screening and scheduling.  The fees can be as much as 100% of the fee you pay and the girls are left to hustle extra money, money the client had no idea he needed.


GFE - Girlfriend Experience - My understanding of GFE is not BB. To me GFE is all about making the session feel organic and not like a business transaction. There shouldn't be a ton of dos and donts.


Girlfriends kiss, cuddle, flirt, smile, take their time, listen, and there's the desire to please along with wanting to be pleased.


No two providers are going to interpret GFE the same, much less deliver it the same..


BB - bare back - This means no condom. Hate to inform you but in my book that is 


WIFE EXPERIENCE or WFE.  Unfortunately, I don't offer wife experiencesto my clients.  I just made that one up.  I've never seen wife experience before but now you have. LOL


STOP AND THINK


If I agree to having unprotected sex with one client that means that I say yes to other clients too.  Let me remind you that you have a beautiful wife that doesnt deserve catching an STD that may not be curable physically or mentally.


As a matter of fact if you ask for BB but say you still wish to book even though I won't agree to BB I won't see you because now I know you don't practice safe sex, even with sex workers and that is horrible. 


BBBJ - Bare Back Blowjob 


CBJ - Covered Blow Job- Blow job with condom


Greek - Anal


Fetish - something that really turns you on. 


Flow - Period 


Rimming - licking anus


ATM - Ass to mouth with fingers, toys, or penis.  


Bad Boy Report - Site where providers share info on clients that no show or are undesirable. 


Bait and Switch - Advertising photos of someone other than the person who opens the door.  They may not even be the same sex or race. 


Cash and Dash - When you pay the agreed price she sneaks or runs out of room without providing any services.  She may have a male accomplice to help her get the money. 


Driver=Security- Person that accompanies provider to outcall location and collects the fee to make sure client cannot take it back.


Bare back/ BB - is sex without a condom 


BBFS = bare back sex


BBW = big beautiful woman


BCD = behind closed doors


BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.


BF = boy friend


BFE = boy friend experience


BLS = ball licking and sucking


Blue Jay = * job


blue pill = Viagra


BTW = by the way


Cash and Dash = provider ROBS client for initial fee. She takes your money and runs


CBJ = covered * job = BJ with condom


CD = cross dresser = covered doggy style


CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom


CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you


CIM = cum in mouth


CL = craigslist.org


CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde or red head 


CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.


Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you cover = condom


cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers


Car Visit - Do session inside clients car


POP = releases = Funs = POPS - climax, orgasm, cum, squirt 


DATO = dining at the o = analingus


DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus on a female.


DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus


Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees


donation = payment


Doubles or Duos = A threesome